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There can be many different reasons why, we have become parents. No matter what the reasons are, we stand with a number of challenges and tasks.
The way, we deal with the challenges and the tasks, are to most of us influenced by, what we have experienced in the family (or lack of family), we grew up in.
\r\nThat means, we to a very high degree just do as those, who were ‘our adults’, did. Some of, what we do, we are conscious about – others (often a lot) certainly not.
\r\nAt the same time, there are results of that, ‘our adults’ did, we do not think are the best, we can still have an idea of or a belief in, that if we do the same as they did, we will have another result.
The ideas, we have, about how our closest relations are to be, are often very strong. Perhaps it has something to do with, that they are connected to our basic feeling of security.
\r\nThe security is not necessarily connected to, that the relations there, where we grew up, were good or satisfactory, but more connected to, that they represent something known. The known we have a long experience of, how we can handle.
The best requisite for being a parent seems to be, to be who or what, you truly are. Not that, your parents expected you to be – or expect. Not what others expected – or expect.
‘Free by tapping’ has made it simple and fast to both uncover and to create positive lasting changes to aspects, that obstruct us from being who and what, we truly are – completely on our own.